Corona has been rambling around over the last few months. But we made it to the end of the school year and the next one is about to come. School often means a routine. And routine has always been hard for me to stand. So, before the semester begins, I knew I needed to cross the borders one more time. But where to? I had only 2 weeks left and many countries were still closed. Europe will must do!
As I traveled with my finger on a map my phone beeped. So, I opened the messages and saw this tanned smiley familiar face. The lightbulb above my head lit up. That’s it! Few messages, and I found myself buying a ticket. Final destination: Portugal.
Every time we travel, we meet new people right? Naturally. Sometimes we talk to them, share stories or laugh. With some, we get along better than with others, or even better than we ever expected. We can give each other our contacts, an empty promise of staying in touch. But let’s be honest. How long will it take till we use all the mutual topics? How many weeks till we lose common ground? When will we become quiet and our conversation will get lost too low to scroll down to?
I met many people who I still love to talk to. But from long conversations we came to a short text once a week. Week became month and now we’re only on a happy birthday and Merry Christmas wish. It may seem sad at first, but indeed, it is beautiful how people come and go. Making space for new ones to take place and teach us.
I shared a room for one night with this girl, during my travel in Spain. And 5 hours were clearly enough for me to decide that I want to keep her for a bit longer. So, when her face popped up in my messages, I knew what I had to do.
Portugal is a place I had never been to before, but I did hear about its beauty. Sea and sun, wine and parties. I flew to Porto and took a train to Aveiro, where my personal guide was patiently expecting me. I was happy to see her. Truly. Is that strange if we met for only for 5 hours about a month ago? Couchsurfing let me down, but there I was, staying with a stranger. This is the way to go!
We decided to turn those 5 hours into 5 days and I don’t think it could go any better. She let me stay at her place over 4 nights and spent 5 full days with me. I always found it really challenging to spend 24hours a day with someone for more than 3 days in row. But I have to step back now, and say – it is possible. She took me to a few places around Portugal, so let me share a bit of that with you…
Aveiro
A whole new world. Small city, packed with beautifully painted and tiled houses that give you the urge to stare, take pictures and keep on wandering through the streets. Beaches with magical sunsets, walks and lighthouses. Fields of salt getting on the local workers’ mood. But the dirty jokes on each of the moliceiro boat bring the laughs back, and those majestic eucalyptus trees are freshening up the air.
Coimbra
City clearly dominated by an university full of history and telling stories on its own. No umbrellas but carpets and lacy curtains hanging above narrow streets. Great view on the city upon a hill washed by the Mondego river.
Passadiços do Paiva Trailhead
With a bit of confusion, we reached a gorgeous valley taking us 7 kilometers alongside a river, we could dip in. Trees along the boardwalk and a long staircase to finish us up. So peaceful, so relaxing and with 20k in legs, we knew they won’t thank us later.
Porto
You wouldn’t be the first, nor last, to fall for this beautiful hilly city. Promenades on both sides of the river full of restaurants, people and street artists showing their talent in exchange for a few cents. Nice old buildings and green parks, but also an ocean washing the shore and lighthouses sticking out in it. A really great ending to my trip.
So if you ask me what Portugal is about, I would say tiles. Tiles with different colors and patterns or those with blue and white drawings. Eucalyptus trees bringing as much beauty and fresh air as fear of quickly spreading fires. Short people with tan, colorful beach houses, fishy smell and the ocean.
5 days staying just outside of Aveiro with this lovely portuguese girl. Could it go wrong? I can think about 100 ways only. Is it weird to stay with a stranger? The question is, was she a stranger since we met before? Whatever you may say or think, I am glad I went. I am more than thankful I had a personal guide giving me an insider look. And I know for sure that without her, I wouldn’t enjoy Portugal as much. We spend some great time together, stupid laughs and deeper talks, finding out how similar we are, and how similar we all may be. It was only 5 days, but I left richer. I got my little lesson learnt, a new piece of that enormous puzzle uncovered. I found understanding, inspiration and motivation in this short, tanned always smiling girl, with beautiful mind, strong passion and desire to work hard without ever giving up. It was such an honor to meet you.
So, go out there and talk to strangers you feel comfortable with. Make temporary contacts or long-lasting friendships. I’m not saying that you will ever meet someone like her or that you will learn and found what I did. I’m only passing on the message, that every single person has something to teach us. Story of their own we all can learn from, or words that help us understand a bit better to ourselves. I don’t know if these meetings are random or meant to be. Either of us could travel on different dates or be assigned to another room. But we weren’t. And I can be nothing, but thankful for it. Now I know that we have a bit more time from the moment we came until we shall go.






























